As we age we will all gradually lose our ability to perform simple daily tasks or at least to find them more of a challenge. As our muscles lose mass and strength, lifting a gallon of milk or other beverage becomes more difficult. Changes in vision will require brighter lights to allow us to read labels, magazines and books. We are more prone to broken bones as our skeletons become more fragile over time.
We need to be aware that these things are also happening to our aging relatives and friends. There will be opportunities to provide assistance in subtle ways such as asking if a family member will come along on a shopping trip that you are already making. When you stop by for a quick visit, take a moment to pitch in with fixing the food or cleaning up after. If your family member is finding housework to be too much you may give them a maid service as a gift for a special occasion. Approach the maid service carefully, they may not take easily to the suggestion that they are not able to do the house work independently.
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